I SAY HELLO
Lorian Press, 2026
by Holly Morse & Michael Lipson
“The loss of a child is one of the most searing forms of suffering. Often there seems to be no way back. These poetic letters between Holly and Michael, written back and forth over a year, give us an intimate glimpse into their gentle, halting, purposeful steps toward healing. Through their keen and subtle observations, through the remembered words of their precocious and generous son, and through their brave willingness to endure the sorrow and forge an era of renewed and deepened commitment in their long love affair, they weave a cloth of human particulars into a universally moving account. ”
Two writers, an artist and a psychologist who worked with dying children, lost their first-born son to an incurable sarcoma. Asher was 25 years old when he died. Three decades before, his parents, Holly Morse and Michael Lipson, had fallen in love writing letters, and they found themselves returning to letters to find their way through impossible grief. Here, these letters are shared publicly, for you to travel with them toward healing, perhaps allowing your own grief to come into resonance, as Morse and Lipson learn to stay in touch with the son they lost.
“With inventive language and dry-as-bone wit, Morse presents a flotilla of unforgettable characters in unexpected situations (an inebriated bookseller on the rebound, a real estate visit that ends in the ER...) in a wildly original collection that celebrates—and augurs—the violent possibility of our American lives.”
“I absolutely love these stories, insightful, gentle, and also searing. It takes courage to write about the most tender aspects of human life, and talent to do so well, and luckily for us Holly Morse has both courage and talent to burn. Read Spangled Ruin and it will stay with you and you will be grateful that it does.”